Coming soon to iPhone and Android
Make it a Dote day.
Never lose a date idea again.
You spot a braw date idea on TikTok, send it to each other, and by Saturday it's lost in the group chat. Dote keeps every one in a shared list, helps you pick one when the weekend comes round, and turns the dates you actually go on into a wee scrapbook.
Shared from TikTok
Ice cream on the Kelvin
- Outdoors
- Chill
- £
Sat looks braw ☀️
How it works
Three steps. Dote does the tedious bits.
Share it
See something good on TikTok, Instagram or anywhere else? Share it straight to Dote from your phone's share sheet, or type a quick note. It's saved instantly, even before the clever bit finishes.
Sort it
Dote's AI fills in the card for you: the place, the kind of date, a rough cost and whether it's indoors or out. Filter your list by what's nearby, chill or active, and what the weekend weather's doing.
Remember it
When you've been, mark it done, add photos and each write your take. Your partner's note stays hidden until you've written yours. The dates you go on become a private scrapbook of memories.
The short version
Works across iPhone and Android
Dote is built for couples where one of you has an iPhone and the other has an Android phone (or you both have the same). You share one list, whatever you're holding.
One subscription covers you both
If you ever upgrade to Dote Premium, one purchase unlocks it for both partners. No paying twice.
Capture from anywhere
Share a TikTok, an Instagram Reel or any web link to Dote from the share sheet. Short links are followed and the details are pulled in for you.
AI fills in the card
Dote reads what you saved and works out the venue, category, location, cost band and whether it's an indoor or outdoor plan. You can always edit it.
Weather-aware weekend picks
Outdoor ideas get a badge for how the coming weekend looks where they are, so you can save the beach for when it's actually nice.
A private scrapbook
Finished dates become memories with photos, both your notes and a rating. They're private to the two of you unless you choose to share one.
A generous free tier
Free covers unlimited ideas, all the filters and weather badges, and up to 3 photos per memory. Premium adds unlimited photos and weekend weather alerts.
Questions, answered
What is Dote?
Dote is a date-ideas app for couples. You save date ideas you find on TikTok, Instagram or anywhere on the web into one shared list, Dote fills in the details with AI, and you pick one to do based on distance, cost, mood and the weekend weather. Dates you go on become a private scrapbook of memories.
Is Dote free?
Yes. Dote's free tier includes unlimited date ideas, every filter, weekend weather badges and up to 3 photos per memory. An optional Dote Premium subscription adds unlimited photos and weather alerts, and one subscription covers both partners.
Does Dote work if one of us has an iPhone and the other has an Android?
Yes. Dote works on both iPhone and Android, and a couple shares the same list, memories and subscription whichever phones they use.
What happens to my data?
Dote collects as little as possible: no ads, no tracking and no selling your data. Your location never leaves your phone. Your ideas and memories are private to you and your partner, and you can export your data or delete your account at any time from Settings.
Is Dote for LGBTQ+ couples too?
Yes. Dote is for any couple, whatever your genders or orientation. It's built for two people sharing date ideas, and that's the only requirement.
When can I get Dote?
Dote is in testing just now and will launch on the App Store and Google Play. Join the waitlist on dote.day and we'll email you once, on the day it's ready.
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