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Terms of use

Last updated 26 September 2026

These are the terms for using Dote. We’ve kept them short. By using Dote you agree to them.

Using Dote

  • You need to be 18 or over.
  • Sign in with your own Apple or Google account, and keep your phone secure. You’re responsible for what happens in your Dote.
  • A Dote is for two people. Only invite your partner, and only accept an invite that’s meant for you.

Your stuff

What you add to Dote (ideas, notes, ratings, photos) stays yours. You give us permission to store it, process it and show it to you and your partner so the app works, including sending link and note text to our AI provider to fill in idea cards. If you switch on sharing for a memory, you’re also allowing anyone with that link to see it until you switch sharing off.

Please only add things you have the right to share, and nothing illegal, hateful or harmful. We can remove content or close accounts that break these rules.

Premium

Dote is free to use. Dote Premium is an optional subscription bought through the App Store or Google Play; one subscription covers both of you. Prices, renewals, cancellations and refunds are handled by Apple or Google under their terms. If Premium ends, you keep everything you’ve already added; Premium-only limits (like photos per memory) apply to new additions only.

The AI bits

Idea cards are filled in automatically and can be wrong: a place, a price or whether it’s indoors might be off. Check before you set off, especially opening times and bookings. Weather badges are forecasts, not promises.

Our side

We’ll do our best to keep Dote running and your data safe, but Dote is provided “as is”. To the extent the law allows, we’re not liable for indirect losses, or for a date that didn’t go to plan. Nothing here limits rights you have under UK consumer law.

Stopping

You can delete your account at any time in Settings. We may suspend or end accounts that break these terms, and if we ever close Dote we’ll give you notice and a way to export your data.

The legal bit

These terms are governed by the law of Scotland, and the Scottish courts can hear disputes (if you live elsewhere in the UK, you can also use your local courts).

Questions: hello@dote.day.

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