Features
Everything Dote does
One shared jar of date ideas for the two of you, from the moment you spot one to the memory afterwards. Here's what's in it today.
Save from anywhere
Share a TikTok, an Instagram Reel or any web page straight to Dote from your phone's share sheet, or tap + and jot down a quick note. Spotted something in one of our date guides? Its Add to Dote button pops it right in. It lands straight in your Date Jar, and Dote fills in the place and the rest while you get on with your day.
AI fills in the card
Dote finds the real place on Google and works out the kind of date, a rough cost and whether it's indoors or out, then adds a picture and a link back to where you found it. You can change any of it, or switch AI features off in Settings → AI and fill it in yourself.
Pick one together
The Date Jar is where you pick from. Filter it by what's near you, how much energy you've got, the cost, and indoors or out. Give the ones you fancy a ❤️ and you'll see which ideas you both love.
Knows what the weekend's doing
Outdoor ideas get a badge for how Saturday and Sunday look where they are, and the Good this weekend filter shows only the ones worth doing. Save the beach for when it's actually nice.
Plan it
Pick a day and a time (this Saturday is one tap), then add it to your calendar. Places show their address and a small map, and a tap opens your maps app for directions. Fancy a double date? Choose With friends to invite other couples and find a time that suits everyone.
Keep the good ones
Mark it done, add photos, give it hearts out of five and each write your take (theirs stays hidden until you've written yours). It all goes into a private scrapbook, and you can share a single memory by link if you want to.
Made for two
One of you on iPhone and the other on Android? No problem. You share one jar and one scrapbook, and one Premium subscription covers you both.
Private by design
No tracking and no selling your data, and your location never leaves your phone. Export your data or delete your account whenever you like, right from Settings.
Free and Premium
Dote is free for as long as you like. Premium is for the couples who want to keep the lot.
| What you get | Free | Premium |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | From £1.99 a month, or £14.99 a year, in the UK (prices vary by country) |
| Date ideas | Unlimited | Unlimited |
| Filters | Every one | Every one |
| Weekend weather badges | Included | Included |
| Plans, memories and sharing | Included | Included |
| Keep it a surprise: ideas and dates your partner can't peek at | Not included | Included |
| Photos per memory | Up to 3 | Unlimited |
| Videos on memories | Not included | Up to 30 seconds each |
| Story card styles | Polaroid, Ticket stub, Just words and seasonal ones | Every style |
Premium is monthly or annual, billed through the App Store or Google Play, and one subscription covers both of you. Cancel any time.
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Get Dote
Free on iPhone and Android. Download it, invite your partner and start filling your date jar.
