North West England

Date ideas in Manchester

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Manchester packs a lot into a walkable city centre: grand Victorian buildings, free galleries, canals and a different bar on every corner of the Northern Quarter. It has a reputation for rain, so plenty of these picks are indoors, but there's green space too, from Castlefield's towpaths to the deer park at Dunham Massey. These are the places we'd take someone.

Our picks in Manchester

  1. The John Rylands Library's long Gothic reading room, lit by lamps, with a stained-glass window at the far end and display cases along a red carpet

    John Rylands Library

    Deansgate, city centre

    Address: 150 Deansgate, Manchester M3 3EH

    Walk through the neo-Gothic library on Deansgate, opened in 1900, and up to its vaulted Historic Reading Room, lined with stained glass and statues.

    Why it's a good date: It feels more like a cathedral than a library, and it costs nothing to get in. It isn't open every day, so check before you go, and expect a short queue at busy times.

    Photo: Eirian Evans, CC BY-SA 2.0 (cropped and resized)

  2. The Whitworth's red-brick Victorian front with turrets and a lawn, framed by bare branches

    The Whitworth

    Oxford Road, by Whitworth Park

    Address: Oxford Road, Manchester M15 6ER
    • Culture
    • Free
    • Outdoors

    See what's on at the University of Manchester's free gallery, whose glass-walled extension looks straight out into the trees of Whitworth Park.

    Why it's a good date: It's calm and rarely crowded, and the park outside gives you somewhere to walk and talk about what you've just seen.

    Photo: Charlesdrakew, Public domain (cropped and resized)

  3. The Royal Exchange Theatre's steel-framed pod with stairs up its sides, inside a hall of marble columns

    Royal Exchange Theatre

    St Ann's Square, city centre

    Address: St Ann's Square, Manchester M2 7DH

    See a play in the round, in a glass-and-steel theatre pod that sits inside the great hall of Manchester's old cotton exchange.

    Why it's a good date: Every seat is close to the action, and the hall is a sight before the play even starts. Book ahead for the big productions and make a night of it in town.

  4. HOME's glass-fronted building lit up at night, with its ground floor glowing behind the windows and a tree on the square in front

    HOME

    Tony Wilson Place, First Street

    Address: 2 Tony Wilson Place, Manchester M15 4FN

    Catch an independent film, a play or an exhibition at Manchester's arts centre, with a bar and restaurant downstairs.

    Why it's a good date: Film, theatre and food under one roof, so the whole evening's sorted without moving. Take turns picking something the other wouldn't usually choose.

  5. Inside Mackie Mayor, diners at long tables beneath a glass roof held up by curved iron arches

    Mackie Mayor

    Eagle Street, Northern Quarter

    Address: 1 Eagle Street, Manchester M4 5BU

    Share plates from a handful of independent kitchens at the long tables of a restored Victorian market hall.

    Why it's a good date: You each order what you fancy and swap halfway through. The glass roof and ironwork make it feel like an occasion, and it gets busy at weekends, so go early for a table.

    Photo: Duncan.Hull, CC BY-SA 4.0 (cropped and resized)

  6. Afflecks' tall red-brick corner building, with arched windows and metal sculptures climbing the wall

    Afflecks

    Church Street, Northern Quarter

    Address: 52 Church Street, Manchester M4 1PW

    Rummage through four floors of independent stalls selling vintage clothes, records, posters and oddities.

    Why it's a good date: Set each other a small budget and a challenge, like finding the other the best thing for under a tenner, then compare your finds over a drink nearby.

  7. Narrowboats moored on the canal at Castlefield, below a white arched footbridge and an iron railway viaduct

    Castlefield canals

    Castlefield, at the south end of Deansgate

    Address: Castlefield Basin, Potato Wharf, Manchester M3 4NB
    • Outdoors
    • Free
    • Best in Spring, Summer, Autumn
    • Romantic

    Walk the towpaths around Castlefield Basin, where the Bridgewater Canal winds between old warehouses, railway viaducts and the remains of a Roman fort.

    Why it's a good date: A few minutes from the shops and it feels like another city, especially on a summer evening. The canal-side pubs give you somewhere to stop when you've walked enough.

    Photo: Gillie Rhodes, CC BY-SA 2.0 (cropped and resized)

  8. Heaton Park's green slopes and trees, with the Manchester skyline on the horizon under a cloudy sky

    Heaton Park

    Middleton Road, north Manchester, by Heaton Park tram stop

    Address: Heaton Park, Middleton Road, Manchester M25 2SW
    • Outdoors
    • Free
    • Best in Spring, Summer

    Explore one of Europe's biggest city parks, with woodland, a boating lake and a view of the Manchester skyline from the high ground.

    Why it's a good date: It's big enough to feel properly out of town, and the tram drops you at the gate. The rowing boats are seasonal, so check they're out if you fancy a turn on the lake.

    Photo: Todor.iliev.doychinov, CC0 (cropped and resized)

  9. Dunham Massey's red-brick Georgian house at the end of a gravel drive between lawns, under a blue sky

    Dunham Massey

    Near Altrincham, south-west of Manchester

    Address: Woodhouse Lane, Altrincham WA14 4SJ
    • Trip
    • Mid-price
    • Best in Spring, Summer, Autumn
    • Outdoors
    • Out of town

    Walk among the fallow deer in the old deer park, then look round the Georgian house and its gardens.

    Why it's a good date: A day in the country without a long drive. Keep your distance from the deer, take a picnic, and save the house for if the weather turns.

  10. The Midland Hotel's ornate red-brick and terracotta front, with towers and turrets above a line of young trees

    Adam Reid at The French

    The Midland Hotel, Peter Street, city centre

    Address: The Midland Hotel, 16 Peter Street, Manchester M60 2DS

    Book the tasting menu at the Midland Hotel's restaurant, where Adam Reid cooks modern British food with a northern accent in a grand old dining room.

    Why it's a good date: The one to save for an anniversary or a big occasion: an evening that's all about the food, in one of the city's landmark hotels. It's open a few evenings a week, so book well ahead.

  11. Erst

    Murray Street, Ancoats

    Address: 9 Murray Street, Manchester M4 6HS

    Share seasonal small plates from the open kitchen with a bottle from the natural wine list, in a relaxed, stripped-back room in Ancoats.

    Why it's a good date: Laid-back but properly good: you'll order a few things, then a few more. Ask the staff to pick a wine if you're not sure where to start.

  12. Schofield's Bar

    Sunlight House, Quay Street, off Deansgate

    Address: Sunlight House, 3 Little Quay Street, Manchester M3 3JZ

    Order a Martini or a Manhattan at the cocktail bar run by brothers Joe and Daniel Schofield, on the corner of Sunlight House, a 1930s art deco landmark.

    Why it's a good date: Carefully made classic cocktails, in a room that suits dressing up a bit. Start your evening here, or come back for a nightcap.

  13. The Washhouse

    Shudehill, Northern Quarter

    Address: 19 Shudehill, Manchester M4 2AF

    Walk into what looks like an ordinary launderette, pick up the phone on the wall, and get let through into a small hidden cocktail bar.

    Why it's a good date: The way in is a great icebreaker, and there are more surprises once you're inside. It's tiny, so book ahead: you won't get in without a booking.

  14. Speak in Code

    Jackson's Row, off Deansgate

    Address: 7 Jackson's Row, Manchester M2 5ND

    Settle into a low-lit cocktail bar tucked away on a side street, with inventive drinks made from house-made ingredients.

    Why it's a good date: Intimate and unhurried, with friendly bartenders who'll steer you to something new. Good for a quiet second drink after dinner.

  15. Bundobust

    Piccadilly, city centre

    Address: Bundobust, 61 Piccadilly, Manchester M1 2AG

    Share a spread of Indian street food and a couple of craft beers at the big, buzzy hall on Piccadilly.

    Why it's a good date: Everything's vegetarian and made for sharing, so you order a few small plates each and keep going. It's a short walk from Piccadilly station, which makes it an easy first stop on a night out.

  16. This & That

    Soap Street, Northern Quarter

    Address: This & That, 3 Soap Street, Manchester M4 1EW

    Grab a plate of rice and three curries at the no-frills Northern Quarter canteen that's been feeding the city for decades.

    Why it's a good date: You queue, point at what looks good and sit down at a plain table a minute later. The curries change through the week, so it's worth coming back, and it sets you up well for a wander round the Northern Quarter after.

  17. Northern Soul Grilled Cheese

    Tib Street, Northern Quarter

    Address: Northern Soul, Unit G20-21 Smithfield Building, Tib Street, Manchester M4 1LA

    Share a couple of loaded grilled cheese sandwiches at the little cheese-toastie shop in the Northern Quarter.

    Why it's a good date: Proper comfort food for a cold afternoon, and fun to split two and compare. It's a daytime place that shuts early most evenings, so make it a lunch date before the shops.

  18. Lily's Vegetarian Indian Cuisine

    Oldham Road, Ashton-under-Lyne

    Address: Lily's, 85 Oldham Road, Ashton-under-Lyne OL6 7DF

    Take the tram out to Ashton for a vegetarian Indian feast at the family restaurant that grew out of a cash-and-carry café.

    Why it's a good date: It's been run by the same family since the 1970s and the cooking is the reason people make the trip. Order more than you think you need, share it all, and pick up something sweet from the counter on the way out.

  19. Nell's Pizza, Kampus

    Minshull Street, Kampus

    Address: Nell's Kampus, 20 Minshull Street, Manchester M1 3EF

    Split a giant New York-style pizza at Nell's in the Kampus garden quarter, a few minutes from Piccadilly.

    Why it's a good date: The slices are huge and the room is relaxed, so it's an easy, cheap dinner before a gig or a film. Kampus has some nice spots for a drink afterwards too.

  20. New Wave Ramen

    Tib Lane, city centre

    Address: New Wave Ramen, 16 Tib Lane, Manchester M2 4JB

    Warm up over big bowls of ramen at the small noodle bar on Tib Lane, just off Cross Street.

    Why it's a good date: A good rainy-day pick: steamy windows, rich broth and a quick, friendly turnaround. They keep space for walk-ins, but booking is safer on a Friday or Saturday.

  21. Society

    Barbirolli Square, near the Bridgewater Hall

    Address: Society, Basement, 100 Barbirolli Square, Manchester M2 3BD

    Pick from a handful of independent kitchens and grab a long table at the basement food hall under Barbirolli Square.

    Why it's a good date: You can each order from a different kitchen and meet back at the table, and there's a proper bar in the middle. Handy before a concert at the Bridgewater Hall next door.

  22. Freight Island

    Baring Street, Mayfield, behind Piccadilly station

    Address: Freight Island, 11 Baring Street, Manchester M1 2PZ
    • Restaurant
    • Cheap and cheerful

    Wander the street-food traders at the old railway depot behind Piccadilly station, then find a table among the lights.

    Why it's a good date: There's a lot of choice, so it's good when you can't agree on what to eat, and there's often music or sport on. It gets lively at weekends; go earlier in the evening for a calmer table.

  23. Mana

    Blossom Street, Ancoats

    Address: Mana, 42 Blossom Street, Manchester M4 6BF

    Book the long tasting menu at Simon Martin's Michelin-starred restaurant in Ancoats, where every table looks into the kitchen.

    Why it's a good date: It's an evening built around British produce, cooked with real care and served in a calm, modern room. Tables go fast, so book well ahead for an anniversary or a birthday.

  24. Skof

    Federation Street, NOMA

    Address: Skof, 3 Federation Street, Manchester M4 4BF

    Settle in for a tasting menu at Tom Barnes's Michelin-starred restaurant in an old textile warehouse in NOMA.

    Why it's a good date: Exposed brick and girders, no tablecloths and no dress code, so it feels relaxed for somewhere this serious about food. Tables are released month by month and go quickly, so plan ahead.

  25. Winsome

    Princess Street, city centre

    Address: Winsome, 74 Princess Street, Manchester M1 6JD

    Sit up at the big kitchen counter for hearty, seasonal British cooking at this busy brasserie on Princess Street.

    Why it's a good date: It has a proper sense of occasion without any fuss, and the counter seats let you watch the chefs at work. Ask for the counter when you book if you like a bit of theatre.

  26. Where The Light Gets In

    Rostron Brow, Stockport Old Town

    Address: Where The Light Gets In, 7 Rostron Brow, Stockport SK1 1JY

    Take the short train to Stockport for a set sharing menu cooked in the open kitchen of a loft above an old coffee warehouse.

    Why it's a good date: There's no choosing to do: you sit back and the food arrives, cooked from whatever's in season. The room feels like a dinner party in someone's very good kitchen, and Stockport's Old Town is worth a stroll first.

  27. Hawksmoor Manchester

    Deansgate, by Spinningfields

    Address: Hawksmoor, 184-186 Deansgate, Manchester M3 3WB

    Book a steak dinner in the wood-panelled rooms of a Victorian courthouse on Deansgate.

    Why it's a good date: Grand but warm, with service that makes a birthday feel like one. Get there early for a cocktail in the bar, which is usually quieter than the dining room.

  28. 20 Stories

    Hardman Square, Spinningfields

    Address: 20 Stories, No 1 Spinningfields, 1 Hardman Square, Manchester M3 3EB
    • Restaurant
    • A treat
    • Romantic
    • Big night

    Have dinner twenty floors up with the whole city spread out below, then step out onto the terrace for a drink.

    Why it's a good date: The view is the star: on a clear evening you can see across Manchester to the hills. Book a table for sunset and ask for one by the window.

  29. Tender at the Stock Exchange Hotel

    Norfolk Street, off King Street, city centre

    Address: Stock Exchange Hotel, 4 Norfolk Street, Manchester M2 1DW

    Dress up for dinner under the glass dome of the old Manchester Stock Exchange, in the hotel restaurant run by chef Niall Keating.

    Why it's a good date: The room is the reason to go: a grand Edwardian trading floor with the dome overhead. Have a drink in the hotel's old bank vault bar before you sit down.

Dates in Manchester: quick answers

What are good rainy-day dates in Manchester?

The John Rylands Library, Manchester Art Gallery and the Whitworth are all indoors and free to get into. A film or play at HOME, a show at the Royal Exchange Theatre or a rummage round Afflecks also keep you dry.

Are there free date ideas in Manchester?

Yes. The John Rylands Library, Manchester Art Gallery and the Whitworth are free, and a walk along Castlefield's canals or round Heaton Park costs nothing.

Where should we go for cocktails on a date in Manchester?

Schofield's Bar in Sunlight House is the classic choice for a Martini. For something playful, book the Washhouse, a hidden bar behind a launderette front on Shudehill, or try Speak in Code on Jackson's Row for a quieter drink.

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